Adapting to new realities isn't just a skill - it's a gift
By Santino Rossini, Argentina / Development Volunteer team April 2024
Santino shares his thoughts after volunteering for 6 months at the Teachers Training College in Dowa, Malawi.
" Throughout the entire process at CICD, I was filled with a mix of excitement and uncertainty, embarking on a long journey into the unknown.
I had no idea what it would be like or how it would change me, but one thing was clear: it would change me forever.
At first, I thought the journey would be smooth because I was full of enthusiasm at CICD. Meeting new friends who shared the same dream made it feel like an adventure, and I thought I was ready for anything. However, the first few months were challenging, as everything felt unfamiliar: the food, sharing rooms, adapting to the weather, learning a new language, and getting used to a structured routine.
The real adventure began in Africa
But the real adventure began in Africa. There, I found myself in a world that was completely different from what I had known. It was humbling and inspiring, pushing me beyond my comfort zones every single day. That's why preparing myself mentally and physically was not just important, but essential to succeed in my mission.
My expectations from the beginning evolved over time. Some were met, others faded, and many transformed into new goals as I immersed myself in the experience. Volunteering in Africa wasn't just about helping others - it was about discovering parts of myself I didn't even know existed.
What once felt strange and intimidating became part of my daily rhythm. For six months, those routines, challenges, and moments of connection defined my life.
And the best part was sharing it with my group. Thanks to them, I was able to enjoy the experience even more and feel supported during uncertain times. Together, we shared laughs, tears, and moments of growth, making the experience even richer and more meaningful.
... but returning was strange!
But returning to England brought a new wave of emotions. The place I once called home now felt unfamiliar. It was almost as if time had stood still there, but I had changed so much that nothing felt the same. The people weren't the same, and neither was I.
In the end, all my expectations were reshaped by the reality of my journey. The experience was more challenging, transformative, and rewarding than I could have ever imagined. It taught me that adapting to new realities isn't just a skill - it's a gift that allows me to grow through every process I face."
