Rafael (also known as Manuelito) told me his story a very warm evening in Children's Town, while we were sitting on a mattress on the floor with 3 of the youngest boys asleep. I’ve heard this story before, when I met him 2 years ago, but this time, as he was telling it my feeling of admiration for this young person was so big I asked him if I could write down his story to share with whoever wants to read and he said yes right away.

Rafael Bernardo Chambal is almost 17 years old, was born the 23-07-2000. Until he was 7 years old he was living only with his uncle. On a Sunday his uncle told him they were going for a walk as they often did. They went but not to the same places they used to. They went to Costa do Sol and stopped in a new place. His uncle went to a room to speak with someone and Rafael stayed outside waiting and watching some children playing.
By the time the uncle came out he went directly to the car and took out some luggage that was in the back of the car. He told Rafael “This is your new home” and just like that he left! Rafael says he remembers that day perfectly and he remembers staying on the steps of the entrance near the director’s office crying.
Until 2011 his uncle actually went to pick him up every weekend as well as for the holidays, but from 2011 he just stopped coming and he did not say goodbye.
In 2014 Rafael decided to find out about his uncle. He could still remember where they used to live very very clearly! He travelled there with a Development Instructor from CICD-UK. When they arrived there was another disappointment because his uncle had moved to another place and did not leave any contact at all. Unfortunately the only person who had a contact was the director who had been robbed, and with that the contact was lost.
Rafael tells his story with sadness in his eyes and he also says that it is the abandonment that bothers him - not understanding why and what did he do to deserve it.

So Rafael is in Children’s Town since 2007 and this place became his home and the other kids became his brothers and sisters. He is the one who says it, and he also says “ I’ve learned a lot, more than I know I did… I made many friends, and they gave me the opportunity to study ”.
Rafael completed the 10th grade and by the end of 2016 he graduated from a Construction Course that took him a lot of effort and dedication to finish! He says he wants to study more. To know more…
In his free time he likes to go around and see if there is anything to fix and he likes to build things. He also loves to spend time in the kitchen and honestly: he is a great chef!! Football is a passion and he is always very eager to learn new things!

I also asked him what his dream is and what does make him happy. He answered “ I am happy when I can do what I want and I am happy when I see the others (pointing to the young kids) happy… My dream is that the children have their rights and everyone has a family ”

Rafael also told me that he was quite misbehaved when he was younger, that he was angry many times and that he felt alone…. But he told me too that he decided to change because if he wanted a good life he was the one in need to fight for it. He said “I am actually lucky: I have a bed and meals and I can study… And we have lots of fun!!!”

So, this is Manuelito’s story. It inspired me a lot! And like him there is many other kids here in Children’s town. Life did not smile at them. They have no blood relation family. What this place (Children’s Town) did for him changed his way of seeing life and gave him hope. He is very grateful to be here, I am very grateful to him for sharing this with me and I am sure with the strength and good heart he has he can achieve whatever he sets his mind to do!

We have been for 9 days in Botswana. We were in Phikwe, in a project called Child Aid.

Here in Child Aid Phikwe they work with 10 areas:

Economy strengthening
Health
Pre school
Youth in Society
Vulnerable Children
Education
Environment
District
Child Labour
Crime Prevention

Here in Selibe Phikwe, most of the people work in the mines but what happened last October changed everything!
For different reasons the mine closed and more than six thousand people lost their jobs. What Phikwe is going through now is a very sad reality. People do not have food on their table. Families who worked in the mine do not have any other job. From the TB screening door to door visits we could see that many of the families were ex miners workers and their situation is very sad. The peoples hope is that the mine will re-open next year. Even though working on the mine makes it much easier for TB to spread and even though that is one of the biggest death causing diseases, it is also people’s way of living. It is what pays them so they can put food on the table at least once a day. During our investigations we could conclude woman usually get married around 21 years old. An average family has between 4 to 6 kids but there are cases of families with 13 kids (it is not just one case) what makes it impossible to feed all the family if no one works. People begin to work in the mines around 13/14 years old and they used to work there for a lifetime.
The hope now for this 6000 people is that the mine actually reopens, there is many rumors that can happen so let’s hope for the best. Meanwhile we can test many of the mine workers for TB and HIV and that is very good because most of the times when there was door to door TB screening the miners were most of the time working. HIV test results can take up to one hour to get and TB one day.

During the investigations we also came to an understanding that both hospital and school are free or have very low fees and most of the children go to school. There are of course cases of drop out. All subjects in school are in English so most kids learn how to write and speak in English since their 6 or 7 years old. In school they are offered one or two meals (breakfast and lunch). A normal family has around 3 meals per day but now, with the situation of the mine closing that was kind of reduced to one. Children start to help their parents when they are 9 years old and the decisions at home are taken together. It is very normal to have woman on the government and has chiefs. It is quite easy for woman to have small businesses… that being selling the common “fat cakes” of Botswana, making food on the street or other kinds of businesses. But what we were told from the leaders of the Child Aid project is that when a woman depends on a man there are usually many cases of abuse in the family.
The government built around 860 houses this year (Phikwe area) so there is an improvement of people’s way of living. The common houses are made of bricks even if they are not painted and the mud houses start to see much less seen. Most of the people have easy access to water (doesn’t mean it is clean water) but electricity it’s still an issue.

Alcohol it is still a big problem in Botswana, more for man than woman but still it is unbelievable the number of woman who are in the pubs drinking. The government made a law that Pubs have to open at 3pm and close at 10pm in a way of making sure people spend less time on the pubs.
The biggest problem of this area it is unemployment. Factories closed last year, the mine close 2 months ago and there is thousands of people without a job. It is very hard to find one. Most graduates from school have no jobs even if they are qualified there is no market for them.
During our time in Phikwe we had the opportunity of having actions in the field where we went and made door to door TB screening and HIV testing, that action taught us a lot, we could easily see how people live, we were invited to their houses and they shared their food with us. Even though they do not have much, even though a family of 13 people has very few food and not a lot of hope, every single person we met was extremely friendly! That was with no doubt one of the most wonderful things we saw! Every person we met gave us a smile, offered us help and introduced us to their culture, they asked nothing in return.
during our time we made a friend who took us to two different Dance Youth groups who were performing for us with a talent that I cannot describe in words. There is no need of musical instruments after all to have the most brilliant spectacle and you do not need dance classes to know how to move properly! Art is in their blood and it is wonderful because you can see the feeling and how proud they are for representing Botswana culture!

Now I present you with two particular cases, one very sad and one of a woman with the brightest smile of Botswana!

1- This woman has no father. Her mother turned her back on her many years ago. She has no other relatives. Her husband (who she made us understand treated her very badly) left her when she was pregnant with this precious, almost 1 year old, baby. This baby has only that t-shirt. No other clothes. They have no food at their house. They live in a rented house the size of a room. They have no electricity and no water. She shares a latrine with her neighbor who gives her some food every time they cook for the family of 8 people (that means once day I good days). She lost her Jo some months ago when she was ill. She is far from her hometown. She has no friends besides her neighbor. Social workers do not help because she is actually not from Phikwe and the social workers from her hometown are far and do not pay a visit. She has no smile in her face, no tears either. She has no hope in her eyes.

2- She is a very strong woman, married since very young age, with 4 kids, 2 of them go to school. She is part of a womans club who puts together 20 pula per month in the bank, with that all of the 10 woman have an insurance and if anything happens to any of them or their family member(husband or children) the family doesn’t have to pay because they’re ensured. She makes “fat cakes” and French fries and sells them in the street. What makes her happy is her business, church and being with her family but she says she does not believe in Love! She received us at her house (even when we woke her up from a nap) with a shy face but was fast until she opened up that beautiful smile and shared with us her some things of her life! She is the one who has been holding the group, she makes efforts for them to keep together even through the challenges. We will not forget her!

We have been for 9 days in Botswana. We were in Phikwe, in a project called Child Aid.

Here in Selibe Phikwe, most of the people work in the mines but what happened last October changed everything!
For different reasons the mine closed and more than six thousand people lost their jobs. What Phikwe is going through now is a very sad reality. People do not have food on their table. Families who worked in the mine do not have any other job. From the TB screening door to door visits we could see that many of the families were ex miners workers and their situation is very sad. The peoples hope is that the mine will re-open next year. Even though working on the mine makes it much easier for TB to spread and even though that is one of the biggest death causing diseases, it is also people’s way of living. It is what pays them so they can put food on the table at least once a day. During our investigations we could conclude woman usually get married around 21 years old. An average family has between 4 to 6 kids but there are cases of families with 13 kids (it is not just one case) what makes it impossible to feed all the family if no one works. People begin to work in the mines around 13/14 years old and they used to work there for a lifetime.

The hope now for this 6000 people is that the mine actually reopens, there is many rumors that can happen so let’s hope for the best. Meanwhile we can test many of the mine workers for TB and HIV and that is very good because most of the times when there was door to door TB screening the miners were most of the time working. HIV test results can take up to one hour to get and TB one day.
During the investigations we also came to an understanding that both hospital and school are free or have very low fees and most of the children go to school. There are of course cases of drop out. All subjects in school are in English so most kids learn how to write and speak in English since their 6 or 7 years old. In school they are offered one or two meals (breakfast and lunch). A normal family has around 3 meals per day but now, with the situation of the mine closing that was kind of reduced to one. Children start to help their parents when they are 9 years old and the decisions at home are taken together. It is very normal to have woman on the government and has chiefs. It is quite easy for woman to have small businesses… that being selling the common “fat cakes” of Botswana, making food on the street or other kinds of businesses. But what we were told from the leaders of the Child Aid project is that when a woman depends on a man there are usually many cases of abuse in the family.

The government built around 860 houses this year (Phikwe area) so there is an improvement of people’s way of living. The common houses are made of bricks even if they are not painted and the mud houses start to see much less seen. Most of the people have easy access to water (doesn’t mean it is clean water) but electricity it’s still an issue.
Alcohol it is still a big problem in Botswana, more for man than woman but still it is unbelievable the number of woman who are in the pubs drinking. The government made a law that Pubs have to open at 3pm and close at 10pm in a way of making sure people spend less time on the pubs.
The biggest problem of this area it is unemployment. Factories closed last year, the mine close 2 months ago and there is thousands of people without a job. It is very hard to find one. Most graduates from school have no jobs even if they are qualified there is no market for them.

During our time in Phikwe we had the opportunity of having actions in the field where we went and made door to door TB screening and HIV testing, that action taught us a lot, we could easily see how people live, we were invited to their houses and they shared their food with us. Even tough they do not have much, even tough a family of 13 people has very few food and not a lot of hope, every single person we met was extremely friendly! That was with no doubt one of the most wonderful things we saw! Every person we met gave us a smile, offered us help and introduced us to their culture, they asked nothing in return during our time we made a friend who took us to two different Dance Youth groups who were performing for us with a talent that I cannot describe in words. There is no need of musical instruments after all to have the most brilliant spectacle and you do not need dance classes to know how to move properly! Art is in their blood and it is wonderful because you can see the feeling and how proud they are for representing Botswana culture!